Hmmm so here is a scenario that I cam into contact with recently. it's a long one but I'm interested to know what you would do if you were in this girls position, and if you can provide any opinion on the guy?. SO, -Male meets female casually in a bar.he is in the army with hisfriends...she is a student with her friends. -He tells her he is divorced after lessthan a year of marriage. Ex wife lives abroad. His Ex-wife cheated on him so heleft/changed regiment. And is now ready to find love. she doesn't pity him but there is instant chemistry. -after a month of dating they become acouple. -He says he loves her. She does too. -She introduces him to the family..hismum lives abroad and he doesn't talk to anyone else.She supports him and all his hobbies.He shows very little interest in her uni work. -He gets her to stay on camp with him 24/7saying he doesn't want her living at home. -He is very poor with money. Relies onpay day loans EVERY month. Used her credit score to by her aniphone. Tried to get her to get him a drum kit on her credit. he also lied about owing money tocompanies..was getting chased by debt collectors. -She got suspicious of him hiding hisphone etc.Was caught talking to other woman.Was caught on dating sites that he wasstill using. Was caught meeting up with a women whohe called "an old friend" but later found out he previouslywanted to have a one night stand with her. -Had numbers of numerous women +pictures on his phone. She stormed out...upon returning caughthim masturbating to porn. He tried to deny everything. Thenadmitted everything. Apologised and begged her not to leave. Hisexcuse? His divorce -Everything was fine. -She got suspicious again. Found more messages from girls. He hadbeen talking to them whilst he hooked up with her. -Also realised he was still technicallymarried and the divorce papers hadn't even been submitted. -She said nothing. -She then discovered he had signed up toa new site saying he was gay. Agreed to meet an 18 year old for an"intimate encounter." A week before their 1 year anniversary. she made him confront the 18 year oldand her. He tried to deny it then cried saying he needed help. -She left and he begged her to come backand said he was different. -He goes on operational tour. -She pays the deposit for a two bedhouse with both his and her money. Because thats what he and her both want. she has access to his bank etc. -She gets a message from a female sayinghe is making sexual advances on her.She confronts him again and he says itwas a misunderstanding. She leaves. -He comes back on r&r and they goaway for a week. They decide to stay together. -Now a year and a half into therelationship he pays her very little attention. Doesn't know anythingabout her. Says it's hard because he is on tour. But he made apromise to her that she was number 1 etc. he comes back from tour ina month. He offers her no emotional support and she assumes he isprobably talking to other women. What would you do? | |||
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What would you do??
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