| I agreed to let my exH take me out for dinner for my birthday. He has never said anything other than that he wanted the D and that he doesn't want to change anything. Suddenly in the last 2 weeks, though, he friended several of my family members on Facebook, came by my house and spotted a truck in my driveway, sent me encouraging notes because I was preparing for an important exam, etc. We had a nice dinner, and as usual, when we spend time together, I find myself wondering why we aren't still together. He never seems to get how awful it feels and it isn't his fault, he just can't get it. I need to limit my exposure to him. That was the end of the line, my final inoculation from him. Time for me to accept he means what he says, he is done as my husband. Time for me to help him see I do NOT want to be his friend. Contact only as it relates to our children begins now! I still had a bunch of things to take care of related to our divorce, got them all ready to go this week, time to end this and move on. |
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