NC Letter

Has anyone had success with this? I'm way past this as an option for myself, but it just seems to be such a submissive, desperate attempt to assert control over a situation you have no chance in hell of controlling... I see a lot of references to this, along with polygraphs. I couldn't imagine my sitting my WIFE down and constructing a letter to some stranger who has been intimate with my WIFE. I can only imagine her agreeing to anything since she was caught, but later laughing about it to the the OM once she can get away to call him. I couldn't even imagine having her hooked up to a machine, asking her questions about said stranger. If I were to sit down and write anything with her, it would be a divorce agreement. I'm absolutely mystified how anyone can forgive and continue being married after an affair. I'm not saying it is impossible, but man, how do you do it?

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