What to do

Hi, I met this girl in my first year of University, I liked her and we got on. She had a boyfriend, but in a (classic) state of 'not sure about it'. She obviously liked me, I liked her and so I told her. She kinda rejected me, in a not so round about way, instead insisting 'one day maybe' etc.. So I tried to continue being friends with her, could not do it and when it came to the crunch I told her that it either is or it never is. She chose her boyfriend, who is a total gentlemen/tool depending on how you view it. It made me sad for a while. Now I have watched her do the same thing to other guys, right now I can have a friend who is entranced. She is currently single, but playing many guys. I like her, and if she would grow up it would be great. I have kept my distance but when I learned she was single I thought of giving it another go. I have been in contact with her. Sometimes she seems interested, sometimes not. I remember how much fun she was to be around, aside from being emotionally cruel she is fun. Should I pursue? She is abroad this year (possibly why she split up with her boyfriend), and I sent her something romantic/touching (in a personal, non flashy way) for Christmas. I have decided to stop contacting her but kinda want to see her again in person because it's hard to judge otherwise. I wrote a letter saying that I'd like to meet her when she gets back and asking her to get in touch if she would this, should I send it? If I send it I either get to meet her and re-evaluate the situation with more information or I never her back from her and I forget. If I don't then I will begin to move on now, also it is a lesser bruise to my ego/I won't feel further rejections. In many respects I am uncomfortable with the amount she is on my mind, it is a very big distraction and over summer I will be interning in a very stressful job - I would not like to add more stress to the equation. I think I would find it difficult since she is 'not straightforward' it causes me to restlessly over analyse things. What should I do. Send the letter or move on?

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