Hi everybody, this is my first time going to a forum to seek advice for anything so I'm not that familiar with the process but here it goes. I'm 36 and have been married for 17 years, my wife and I have had our share of ups and downs but nothing related to infidelity. My wife has had a turbulent relationship with her family due to an abusive stepfather and a mother in denial and I've been nothing but supportive and understanding. Throughout the years my wife has struggled to trust me and I give her no reason whatsoever to be so insecure or have I done anything that would have her question my commitment in this relationship. I've never been in such a tight grip before, she is always questioning my actions directly or indirectly and assumes I am hiding something from her and creates problems for us for absolutely no reason. I do everything in my power to cater to her to make sure she knows she loved, I've given her every password to every account I have in my name, I keep my phone unlocked, I don't hang out or party, nor do I drink or smoke. Honestly, all I do is work and spend time with her and my 2 children, I've exhausted every single option I have in dealing with her possessive, insecure ways and have wasted a lot of my life trying to make this work but now I'm considering a way out of this. I feel like there is absolutely nothing I can do to make her realize that this has ruined our marriage. I'm tired of the interrogations, and I'm tired of her making me feel as if I'm doing something wrong when I'm not, she tries to convince me that I am the problem for a problem that truly doesn't exist, it's all insecurities that's creating this false reality she lives in. As I said a few sentences back, I see myself exiting this relationship, after all these years of trying to make it work including going to counseling, I feel like this really isn't meant to be, am I right or wrong, any feedback would be greatly appreciated, thank yo u in advance for any and all replies I look forward to the responses.
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