I made the mistake of moving to another state for a woman, and we were together for 3 years. The relationship didn't work out, and now I'm stuck in a state where I don't know anybody else really. So with all this new found free time, I have been on Facebook a lot. There are these groups for adoptees, which I am, and one in particular is more of a funny group. We post stuff in there that you wouldn't share on your timeline, but other adoptees can relate to. It's been good to reconnect with old friends on there, and make new ones. My ex didn't like those groups, because she thought everyone was flirting with each other, so I left it a few years ago. I like to post things like other peoples heads on funny bodies, or make funny videos with other peoples heads, etc. I noticed that one girl was always laughing and liking my comments, so I friended her a few weeks ago. She's really pretty, and seems like a really nice person. We started to PM about a week and ha lf ago, and pretty much talk throughout the day, and even into the evening. She's divorced and has one child, but always responds to my messages within a few minutes. I have told her that she's pretty, but that was when she showed me her wedding picture. She has never told me that I'm good looking or anything, but then I haven't really flirted with her in that way. We talk about our divorce, and other things relating to our adoption, and just everything in general. She is 12 years younger than I am, which is kind of a large age difference. I haven't asked her anything about dating me, as we just are getting to know each other through text.
She actually lives in the city where I moved from, and I am pretty sure she wants to stay there. When my relationship here ended, all I could think about is moving somewhere warm, like Florida, Cali, Denver, etc. Nowhere near where she is living. I have just made the mistake of moving for a girl, and I'm not going to do that again. Although in this situation, since it was where I used to live, all of my friends and family live there. Here's my question, do you think that she's interested or at least considering me as someone who she would date? Or is she just being friendly, and thinks I'm a nice guy? Do I just go with my original plan and move to wherever I want to?
She actually lives in the city where I moved from, and I am pretty sure she wants to stay there. When my relationship here ended, all I could think about is moving somewhere warm, like Florida, Cali, Denver, etc. Nowhere near where she is living. I have just made the mistake of moving for a girl, and I'm not going to do that again. Although in this situation, since it was where I used to live, all of my friends and family live there. Here's my question, do you think that she's interested or at least considering me as someone who she would date? Or is she just being friendly, and thinks I'm a nice guy? Do I just go with my original plan and move to wherever I want to?
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