I recently got back together with my ex-girlfriend after breaking up with her about a year ago. Unfortunately, despite thinking it over extensively beforehand and feeling it was the right decision, I regretted it almost immediately. I feel like I'm back exactly where I was a year ago, trapped in a relationship I don't want to be in.
The annoying thing is, I had no idea this would be how I felt. I was feeling really positive and optimistic about it before I actually committed. There's nothing wrong with my girlfriend, she's a lovely person but I'm just not in love with her. This also makes me wonder if the problem is with me, maybe I'm just incapable of being happy in any relationship.
The obvious 'solution' is to just break up with her, however I've already broken up with her twice before and told her that this time would be different. I'm not even sure if she'll take me seriously if I bring it up again. I'm also not sure if I can bring myself to hurt her like that again, she really doesn't deserve it.
I'm wondering if the best option is to just stick it out for now and see how I feel in a few months. I already know that my thoughts and feelings at any one time can't be trusted. Any advice?
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