In short...
- I saw her on the 12th she put her guard up and wasn't interested in more than friends, I accepted this.
- I didn't contact her till we agreed I'd see her on the 28th.
- She was speaking to her best friend a lot about me whilst she was away.
- I backed off completely.
- Distance made the heart grow fonder
- She came back all open to me, and missed me a lot. (This is the longest we never spoke) and I got the vibe that she was interested in me again.
Last time I saw her was 28th, she let her flatmate presumably control her and she asked me to leave when I was in her room with her and she felt really bad about the whole situation. She deleted me on Snapchat, which is extremely random (Presumably hiding a story about me that she knew if I saw, I'd know her true feelings) as we've never ever used this with each other.
She didn't delete me on Facebook. I messaged her that day as she didn't as she said she would. I then messaged her on Saturday and it was seen but both messages have been ignored.
Now I've decided that I don't want to ever see, speak or hear from her again. She's not worth it and I can do a lot better, everyone has told me that she's lost out bigtime and I agree with them quite a lot. Thing is, she's left the option for her to come running back. She's assuming that I will be open arms when she comes back as I've been very attentive to her.
It's not come to it, I agree but by ignoring her and or not replying.
- Will that give her the hint? Or do I need to tell her straight, I am not interested anymore.
- However if she was genuinely scared, which it has seemed that way about going into something quite new for her, do I give her the benefit of the doubt?
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