why is she sheepish about toy

My wife had long denied her use of a rabbit vibrator purchased by her girlfriend until she I caught her in a lie. It was all very light hearted… Truly, I think it is great that my wife enjoys self-love and can/has enjoyed using a device. The thing is that she has been intermittently honest about how much she likes it.

I have heard similar here from mich and others. While many may feel and profess on this forum i that there is no substitute for "flesh and blood" hand, lips Pen#$ etc. I get this and understand/respect this. I think there are a subset of women who do truly love their rabbit or other toy in a big way…and this is ok…In the case of my wife (and other's) it would seem that double standard/"I shouldn't enjoy this so much" feelings get in the way of enjoying this. My guess is that women women who actively participate on this site, particularly the "sex in marriage" forum may be quite liberated and not fully appreciate the notion of latent guilt associated with toy use. she uses it with me but she seems to hold back..i can't put my finger on it....

I guess I am trying to get a female perspective on what I can do/say to help relieve the guilt or at least understand it.

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