This is a long one, so prepare yourselves...At university I've met this amazing girl. She's in one of my classes, and after starting talking to her in November, we really seemed to hit it off. But before I had the confidence and the chance to ask her for a drink or something, the Christmas holidays arrived, and she left for home. After an exam we both had just before the holidays, we both had classes to go to, so that night I decided to send her a message on Facebook asking her how it went as I didn't get the chance to ask her in person. We struck a conversation that lasted until he early morning, and I thought I'd found my way to keep in touch with her as I never plucked up the courage to ask for her number either.... I think in hindsight all this has done is ruined things for myself. She'd always reply, but while it'd take an hour or so at first - the next time she was online - for her to reply, the last reply came three days afterwards. She's not on Facebook all that much, but she came up as online multiple times prior to her responding. What confuses me is that whenever she's replied, it's always included a return question, something that warrants a response, rather than just single word replies. I like to think of myself as intelligent, but I feel stupid for carrying on talking to her, as I'm concerned all I'm doing is annoying her. I'm pretty confident in person usually, and if I'd had the opportunity I would have continued with face to face interaction and not used anything electronic at all.
I'm already prepared to admit it's not looking good, and to be honest this was more about venting my frustration than anything, but I'd appreciate everyone's opinions on the situation, I've over-thought the whole thing from day one and I'd like an open and neutral view on it from you all.
Thank you for reading.
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