My wife believes that the things we dream about reflect things that are going on in our conscious mind and are connected one way or another, whether it be unresolved issues or past experiences...somehow what we dream about comes from our conscious mind.
With that said, I talk in my sleep on a regular basis. My wife has heard me speak of sexual things while I am asleep. The other day, she said I was definitly having sex with someone and I was not calling out my wife's name, so she woke me and asked who this woman was that I was calling out. The name I was calling was someone I had never known before. I have not had any direct or indirect knowledge of this particular woman's name.
My wife felt some discomfort with the fact I was having sex in my dream with another woman. I tried to explain that I have no control over my dreams and I shouldn't be held accountable for them.
She is worried that I am not satisfied with our sexual relationship and that certainly isn't the case, which I tried to let her know the best I could.
I constantly tell my wife how beautiful she is and how much I love her. I try to let her know how attracted I am to her and I believe she does believe me. I am not sexually starved in the least bit. We have a very healthy sex life, so the problem isn't stemming from lack of sex.
Looking for any bit of referrence material regarding sexual dreams and why I am having them.
In my opinion, I enjoy sex, so I dream about it. I certainly wish I could control them so it would always be with my wife, but I don't think we have that sort of control.
With that said, I talk in my sleep on a regular basis. My wife has heard me speak of sexual things while I am asleep. The other day, she said I was definitly having sex with someone and I was not calling out my wife's name, so she woke me and asked who this woman was that I was calling out. The name I was calling was someone I had never known before. I have not had any direct or indirect knowledge of this particular woman's name.
My wife felt some discomfort with the fact I was having sex in my dream with another woman. I tried to explain that I have no control over my dreams and I shouldn't be held accountable for them.
She is worried that I am not satisfied with our sexual relationship and that certainly isn't the case, which I tried to let her know the best I could.
I constantly tell my wife how beautiful she is and how much I love her. I try to let her know how attracted I am to her and I believe she does believe me. I am not sexually starved in the least bit. We have a very healthy sex life, so the problem isn't stemming from lack of sex.
Looking for any bit of referrence material regarding sexual dreams and why I am having them.
In my opinion, I enjoy sex, so I dream about it. I certainly wish I could control them so it would always be with my wife, but I don't think we have that sort of control.
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