Husband's Infidelity

I have been married for 16 years and have 2 kids. About 7 years ago I found out that my husband was having an affair with a family friend's daughter. He claimed he had not slept with her, but I do not know for sure. Then a few days later, I also discovered that he had slept with a prostitute in Amsterdam and regularly had sex chats with girls on the net. He apologised profusely and after a while we tried to move on. In the following years, I suspected him of speaking to girls late in the night, and caught him doing that once or twice. He became extremely violent and abusive. Last year, he planned a trip to Amsterdam with his guy friends without telling me. When I found out, he accused me of spying on him and became very violent, and hurt me physically before leaving for his trip. I went back to my parents for a while and then returned again. In November last year, I started chatting with an old boyfriend of mine which continued for 2 months. During this p eriod, I was very depressed and my husband was barely on talking terms with me. However, after 2 months, my ex-boyfriend and I decided to not talk anymore and concentrate on the marriage. My husband came to know of this in March and was extremely angry and accused me of having an affair and sleeping with my ex.

Now, I discovered that my husband was browsing escort sites on a trip to London, and his phone bills show that he called the escort service number 4-5 times. He was also carrying enough cash with him to afford paying for this. When I confronted him, he said that he never actually called anyone and was just fantasizing. He accuses me of regularly spying on him and making his life miserable. What should I do? Should I believe him?

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