Right it is a long story so I will try and make it as short as possible - any advice would be great - Thanks in advance.
I was FWB with a guy who was also FWB with someone else (which is fair enough)
We then decided not to put a title on it but to just see each other... after a while of that we decided to give it the title, which only lasted a few months because he then cheated the the other person he was FWB with on numerous occasions (one being the day before we went on holiday)
We remained friends and then after like a year we decided to give the relationship another go... with only being together 3 months he proposed.
Everything was great we had no arguments and i can say i was so happy - although it bugged me that i had to constantly push him to go and see his friends.
Now it seems the total opposite - all we seem to do is argue.
If i ask a simple question that he doesn't want to answer or doesn't know how to answer he will bite my head off and say i'm trying to cause an argument (when i say simple question i mean something as simple as, are we still going out tonight? )
Then recently I found out he hadn't told me stuff (nothing of any significance) but when i asked him why he hadn't mentioned it his answer was he didn't want to tell me... is this normal? I thought couples told each other things? Now i know hes kept things that are of no significance from me, it makes me wonder if he would keep anything else from me... is this reasonable? or am i totally over thinking it?
Its like he tells me one thing but does something else and when i question it, i am in the wrong... (e.g. I asked about booking a trip together he agreed and was up for it, when it came to booking it i asked if he had changed his mind and he went off on one saying he didn't want to go in the first place why cant i just leave it... so i said OK.. so he then accused me of causing an argument)
Am i missing something?
The point of this thread is, i don't know if i am just over thinking things or if things just aren't working and i should call it a day... any advise would be great?
(I know people are probably going to tell me to speak to him about it, I have tried he just tells me everything is fine and when i try to discuss when hes had a go at me he says he doesn't want to talk about it, its in the past (no apology)
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