There's been so many posts lately about women preferring certain types of men and honestly it baffles me as my 'type' is not a conventionally good looking man and I know many girls who feel the same
I find men like Gerard butler and channing whatever his name is just flat and boring to look at. I also am not attracted to muscles that are a result of going to the gym specifically to get muscly - to me that's almost feminine - it's self indulgent and it's not like you got the muscles doing manly activities. This is how I perceive it intuitively by the way, I certainly don't judge anyone living this lifestyle it just doesn't work for me personally it seems :)
HOWEVER I don't judge people on physical traits but I guess that's my preference. For example my current bf is muscly as he's an MMA fighter but he's definitely the first to be muscly. Generally based on exes I like slightly chubby guys, who are taller than me but not really considered tall.
If anyone says oh you probably say that cos you couldn't get these men - not true! I personally don't see it but for some reason I am considered conventionally attractive and get a lot of attention. I guess maybe being slim with big boobs is a type people have.
Anyway what I'm basically saying is - while it takes way more than looks for me to really fancy someone, I do seem to not fancy 'pretty boys' although I have nothing against them, and all these bitter threads surprise me somewhat.
Incidentally this also goes for women too. I like women to be adrogynous I guess that's what I'm attracted to.
Anyone on the same page or am I rambling like a crazy person lol. To men who feel you don't meet a certain standard I really wish you could see there are so many ways to be attractive.
Put the internet to work for you.
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