We've been together 18 months, both in our mid 20s.at the moment we are in a LDR due to work availability.
I just assumed that the eventual aim was for one of us to move closer to the other and move in together.
I was talking to him the other day and made a comment like "well obviously I'm not going to be living here for much longer anyway" and he asked what I meant. He seemed genuinely surprised that my goal is to move closer to him... As if he hadn't thought about it.
So then we had a conversation and he basically said he doesn't feel we'd be ready to live together. He doesn't want me to pin my whole life with him somewhere in case it goes wrong. He basically isn't sure about the stability of the relationship
Despite this he is willing to make plans for holidays and things in the future, and often says he hates that I live so far away.
I don't really see where we're going if about 18 months he still doesn't have enough confidence in the relationship to risk moving to the next level.
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