Ok so basically sex does nothing for me I'm a frigid ha and just enjoy the cuddling etc. I understand that sex is important to most men. It's not that I feel I owe him sex or anything since it's not as though he takes me out we both pay equal for everything plus I drive him around (he doesn't drive) so if anything I'm the one taking him out. It's just I don't think it's fair on him not getting what he wants from the relationship (he's well in his rights to walk away and nearly has done) so I am going to try for him. I enjoy spending nights with him watching dvd's cuddling etc (he says he likes this stuff too) so if I got the sex 'out the way' we could then both enjoy the night. The problem is he is very sexual and into oral sex and I'm very turned off by it (apparently it can cause throat cancer hpv and all that) I could give it with protection but he says that it would be pointless. I'm happy to do intercourse with protection (he doesn't like using it) but y ea.. can a relationship survive on just intercourse. I want to compromise but will I be doing enough?
Btw ive ive not actually said outright that I don't like sex but he says that it's in the back of his mind that I'm not interested.
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