Hey guys! I don't know how to interpret guys who approach girls.. I don't know how I should act. Any suggestions or clarifications?
Here's the story.
Today, I took the elevator (I live on he 30th floor) and it stopped halfway down and this guy came in. I had come across him before in the elevator, just like most of the people living in the building. We exchanged brief hello's as all people do, but then he started hitting up a conversation in a surprisingly friendly manner. I appreciated that and so we talked, asking what we did in life, etc. Then as we left the building, having to quickly end the conversation (since we parted in different directions), he asked if he could have my number. It took me aback but I found him very friendly and since he was around my age I thought I could make a good friend. So I accepted. Via text message, as we briefly talked, he suggested that next time I go to the library to study (I'm currently preparing for my exams in 1.5 month), we go together (he's also preparing exams). I said "Yeah, sure, cool" but I don't know what his intentions are really... Could anyone help me out?
I don't want to make him misunderstand by accepting his moves when I'm not the least bit interested (I am already in a happy committed relationship)! Yet, I'd love to get to know him as a friend, I felt we could get along well! What should I do? What does he want? Am I being naive? I don't want to make it awkward but I want to make sure he knows if he wants to get to know me better, it's for "being-friends" purposes, and nothing more.
I rarely get approached like this so I don't know how to interpret the moves guys make like this. Such a thing had only happened to me once before, and I ended up dating the guy for a month till I broke up. But I can never be sure of the intentions of the guy! And I feel bad, rude and extremely bitchy to say "Um, no, sorry, I'm not interested and I have a boyfriend." I mean the guy is just casually being friendly! How could I say that!
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