Hi all,
First of all, thanks for your time.
There is a long thread about my story... but in a nutshell:
Wife is older a few years, time to have kids, we goth have good jobs, wife does not like the weather here, we had a huge problem until recently with me moving away for a new job after old company went bankrupt, then coming back to the area after a couple of moths, wife was upset and unhappy for almost a year, then both her sisters went through a divorce and are now figuring out that there are not that many available good guys for them, now back to us- wife wants to sell the house we live in (it's hers), I am unsure of what to do, our gradual reconciliation is just very recent, I think my wife sees herself with her sister in Florida and not here in the cold Northeast, I do not want to move as I have just started a terrific job and I am still unsure about our future. Wife seems determined to go, at least that's her wish, I feel that I am being pushed into something that I do not want to do by someone with whom I might not be in a few years. As someone said, there are good mon ths are worse years.
Ufff, that's a long nutshell. But in all seriousness, don't you think that a marital life should be rebuilt before making any other life changes, such as moving (and leaving a terrific job, paying the penalties, etc.) or getting a kid?
Thanks for your feedback and insight.
My first time married.
First of all, thanks for your time.
There is a long thread about my story... but in a nutshell:
Wife is older a few years, time to have kids, we goth have good jobs, wife does not like the weather here, we had a huge problem until recently with me moving away for a new job after old company went bankrupt, then coming back to the area after a couple of moths, wife was upset and unhappy for almost a year, then both her sisters went through a divorce and are now figuring out that there are not that many available good guys for them, now back to us- wife wants to sell the house we live in (it's hers), I am unsure of what to do, our gradual reconciliation is just very recent, I think my wife sees herself with her sister in Florida and not here in the cold Northeast, I do not want to move as I have just started a terrific job and I am still unsure about our future. Wife seems determined to go, at least that's her wish, I feel that I am being pushed into something that I do not want to do by someone with whom I might not be in a few years. As someone said, there are good mon ths are worse years.
Ufff, that's a long nutshell. But in all seriousness, don't you think that a marital life should be rebuilt before making any other life changes, such as moving (and leaving a terrific job, paying the penalties, etc.) or getting a kid?
Thanks for your feedback and insight.
My first time married.
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