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I've wanted to post about this before but didn't want to sound silly. However it's stepped up a notch and I don't know what to do, I need opinions

for a few weeks, I've been being pursued by a guy at work. He is very socially awkward and he seemed down due to some comments at work, I had a chat with him and told him I thought he was doing fine and to ignore any people who give him ****. Since then, he hasn't left me alone

he constantly asks me out despite knowing I have a bf (bf used to work there). He often makes inappropriate comments about how I look, how great my body is and how lucky I am to have big breasts when I'm so slim.

Ive sort of ignored it because I know he's not great socially. However he text me 3 times tonight - I never gave him my number so I'm starting to get a bit worried

how do I deal with this? I haven't told bf yet. Bf is a very humble man but protective of me, I don't want him to confront this guy, my bf is an MMA fighter and can be quite intimidating to some just because of his stature. I also don't want him to fight my battles for me

i kinda wanna tell my manager but is this a good idea?? I don't really want him to get in more trouble at work and feel totally isolated but I need him to know he's crossing the line. I told him I don't like the comments he makes, but he seems to think I secretly enjoy it, that no means yes

i don't know what to do! Am I totally overreacting?! I would appreciate any advice. Please feel free to be blunt, I appreciate straight talking. Thanks

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