I just came across this article, not entirely sure how accurate. The jist of the article:
Now obviously the study does lose some credibility since it focused on British Women :p. Curious though, have you ladies rejected your SO or avoided sex b/c you felt insecure about your own looks?
Quote:
A recent study done to align with the DVD release of Bad Neighbors about women's preferences in men had some pretty interesting results: 3 in 4 British women would choose a man with love handles over a man with a 6-pack, and 96% predict an unpleasant date with an abs-obsessed man. This study isn't talking about what women find aesthetically pleasing though it's asking who you would rather have sex with. A fantasy is not reality, and as much as I have a (healthy) obsession with Ryan Gosling and his photoshop worthy abs, my typical dateable guy could probably be described a "hipster hobbit". Sex therapist Tracey Cox (excellent last name for her profession just saying) delves deeper into why exactly that is, and her reasoning is all too believable and pretty sad. Truthfully, women don't want a man with a perfect body, because they feel that theirs is far too imperfect. Here's another finding from the study: 74% said they'd feel self-conscious about taking off their clothes in front of a perfectly toned guy. Here's another statistic from author of "Not Tonight Dear, I Feel Fat" Michael Alvear: 50% of women have put off sex because they felt too fat. Here's a challenge I put out to the women (myself included): start loving our wobbly bits, stop comparing ourselves to others, and start believing that we're worthy of absolutely anyone that we want whether it's the abstastic Zac Efron or goofy beer-bellied Seth Rogan. |
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment