I met my now boyfriend when we started living together in halls at uni in september. To start with I was against the idea as if anything went wrong it would be horrible but I stand by my decision and living with him is great. The only problem is it's quite intense as we spend so much time together. When we're in the flat we hardly spend any time alone and most of the time we're both in his room. Both of us were quite bad at going to lectures and doing work so that wasn't taking up much of our time either... And we also have the same group of friends... We're both starting to think it's a bit unhealthy to always be around each other and I think it might be the cause of unnecessary irritation and arguments on both sides.
The obvious solution here seems to be to spend less time together, but does anyone have any ideas of how to do that? Having set times to be alone or apart seems too rigid but is that what we need?
Moving forward in a relationship is easy, I'm struggling with the idea that it feels like we should go backwards.
Any other tips on how to live with a partner successfully would also be great! :)
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