Me and my wife have been together 10yrs, we encountered lots of bumpy roads the fault there lies within me because the issue is i keep repeating the same mistakes and i cheated on her once. but we decided to reconcile. problem is we cant communicate properly, when we quarel shes very agresive and dominant its like what she wants she gets in her own way. she gets mad easily if i counter what she wants and i mean literally every thing she wants her way i understand happy wife happy life no? but it some cases it cant cause of certain things. when we discuss something the main topic leads to previous issues she keeps bringing stuff from the past and when she does sometimes i get irritated because the topic at hand is not being addressed. which in turn we cant properly find a solution she gets stressed easily sometimes i just go away and let her be but i try to talk with her same thing happens again. we jave issues that are not resolved and in time it gets bac k at us. i know when she has a problem but she wont open up... maybe because i lost the trust i once have defenitley. but i wont give up on her i love her i want to set things straight but if she wont communicate how can i set things straight. recently shes been talking to one of her ex which was there for her when i did the cheating. shes been leaning to other people for her problems... i feel like im not doing anything to fix things. we got married young but i love her i dont want to lose her. how can i bring her back? how can i gain the trust i lostif she wont talk to me properly which always ends with a quarrel i always ask cause i feel theres something wrong she just wont respond and just wants to be left alone.... please help i know im the one who caused her to be like that. i jsut wantfor us to give and take thats all i ask....
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