It's tough to make it quick so here goes. Been married 26 years can't believe it lasted this long.3 kids all older and 2 still at home though .i am the husband and I am in the third affair with the same other woman..ths has been going on way too long 5 years ...my wife knows about it and yet keeps sweeping everything under the rug...I guess she is just content..probably because I do just about everything pay 80% of the bills take care of the house cars and everything else in between??I know my wife won't leave and sometimes I think she just likes to make me miserable because she knows I won't leave because I am kinda a wimp and am soo afraid of change ?I am at a crossroad. My girlfriend has been almost like a wife to me we act like we are married even though our relationship has been we see each other a few night a week and on weekends but I always spend the night at my home.well now my girlfriend wants and needs more.she had a business but sold it, her only daughter moved out, her nephew who lived with her moved outand she had 3 dogs and now is down to 1 ..so she is lonely and in a bit of financial trouble...she she gave me a month to pack Up my stuff and move in or we r done for good.its not that easy..she has been good to me but I don't want to move in because I feel that I owe it to her..I mean th guilt she puts on me is almost unbearable .i am the reason she is single,I am the reason she had only one child, I am the reason she will have to sell her houses,so so and so forth..she feels cheap a dirty little secret she can't be around me kids but I can be around her family. And on on on.. My daughter knows of her and already told me that if I divorce she wants nothing to do with my girlfriend and this. Hurts a lot,..then again my kids won't be around forever and my dog can only comfort me soo much... Even though I am married I will gro old alone and no one wants that ..but the thought of packing up land just leaving caus e Great anxiety yet the thought of losing my girlfriend makes me feel the same way..his ultimatum thing is causing me great anxiety as well...man I wish there was an easy way out.my girlfriend has given me plenty of options the last one being just move in and let my family stay in the house for a year or 2 until they get to know her and then sell the house off....by then if they need to they could move in with her and I and if not too bad she says they r old enough......tough decision ...any thoughts
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