This is a vent thread....my vent thread. So, if you don't want to hear it....go elsewhere.
It seems that too many posters have watched too much TV. If you are having marital fidelity problems, the answer is to spy on your spouse. If your wife goes out with the girls....get a VAR and put it under the car seat...maybe you will catch her cheating. If ol' Mort next door is talking too much to your sweetie, hire a PI to spy on him. Some will actually go so far as to check their wive's underwear. Do any of these posters have any nuts , at all? Is it just me, or is it that these posters are too weak to confront their spouses, and will do literally anything to avoid it. Then, other posters will advise them to "go dark" or some such cliche' and sneak around like a weasel. Is it any wonder that some of these WS's have no respect for their spouses? Whatever happened to manning up and taking control of your household? What ever happened to "laying down the law"?
The answer that they will give, of course, is that cheaters lie and deceive, so you HAVE to spy to get the truth. Bullsh*t. I have yet to see on TAM, a WS's who was a criminal genius, so that it took Sherlock Holmes to catch her or him.
Paying attention to your spouse, knowing her daily routine, work times and outside interests, with a good helping of common sense, and anyone can catch any cheater.
So, before you go out and pay for all of this electronic crap, polygraphs, PI's etc. Try using what is between your ears, first.
This is my rant thread....and that's the way I feel about this nonsense.
It seems that too many posters have watched too much TV. If you are having marital fidelity problems, the answer is to spy on your spouse. If your wife goes out with the girls....get a VAR and put it under the car seat...maybe you will catch her cheating. If ol' Mort next door is talking too much to your sweetie, hire a PI to spy on him. Some will actually go so far as to check their wive's underwear. Do any of these posters have any nuts , at all? Is it just me, or is it that these posters are too weak to confront their spouses, and will do literally anything to avoid it. Then, other posters will advise them to "go dark" or some such cliche' and sneak around like a weasel. Is it any wonder that some of these WS's have no respect for their spouses? Whatever happened to manning up and taking control of your household? What ever happened to "laying down the law"?
The answer that they will give, of course, is that cheaters lie and deceive, so you HAVE to spy to get the truth. Bullsh*t. I have yet to see on TAM, a WS's who was a criminal genius, so that it took Sherlock Holmes to catch her or him.
Paying attention to your spouse, knowing her daily routine, work times and outside interests, with a good helping of common sense, and anyone can catch any cheater.
So, before you go out and pay for all of this electronic crap, polygraphs, PI's etc. Try using what is between your ears, first.
This is my rant thread....and that's the way I feel about this nonsense.
Put the internet to work for you.
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