I've been entertaining a few questions in my head I wanted to ask the experts on TAM about. I want your opinion on weather you think these are mere myths/rumors or facts you can attest to from personal experience:
1. It's better if you delve deep into all materials that remind you of your eX [Songs, Movies, Places, Pictures] until you get fed up with them during the grieving process, instead of immediately isolating and removing them from your life. Hearing a song @ the mall that meant something to both of you will have less of an impact then if you're "tired" of hearing it.
2. Having an emotional reaction (good or bad) after seeing a picture, an email or getting contacted by your eX after months or years of NC is a sign that you haven't gotten over them.
3. Being in the right state of mind after overcoming loss and falling in love again with someone new, will mean you will never feel hurt over being dumped by your eX ever again.
4. There will come a day where you can see a picture of your eX that left you, with someone new and be genuinely happy for them.
5. Divorce is an even bigger emotional burden the 2nd time around because of all the thought that went into your next marriage after the first one that failed. [If you're the one being dumped twice that is].
I'm interested in hearing your opinion on #1. The rest of the Q's have been lingering in my mind and I thought I'd share them.
1. It's better if you delve deep into all materials that remind you of your eX [Songs, Movies, Places, Pictures] until you get fed up with them during the grieving process, instead of immediately isolating and removing them from your life. Hearing a song @ the mall that meant something to both of you will have less of an impact then if you're "tired" of hearing it.
2. Having an emotional reaction (good or bad) after seeing a picture, an email or getting contacted by your eX after months or years of NC is a sign that you haven't gotten over them.
3. Being in the right state of mind after overcoming loss and falling in love again with someone new, will mean you will never feel hurt over being dumped by your eX ever again.
4. There will come a day where you can see a picture of your eX that left you, with someone new and be genuinely happy for them.
5. Divorce is an even bigger emotional burden the 2nd time around because of all the thought that went into your next marriage after the first one that failed. [If you're the one being dumped twice that is].
I'm interested in hearing your opinion on #1. The rest of the Q's have been lingering in my mind and I thought I'd share them.
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