i started to date again after my spouse of years passed away. we are in committed relation ( she is in late 40s, i am almost 60), i think we like each other much. started to be intimate and here is something i need opinion. from previous relation i am used to unrestricted display of affection ( with late one we would have those dirty little secrets, word play, touching private parts, kissing, taking shower together,,, and we both liked it ). love making was mostly foreplay, with oral , touching, massage,,, penetration was just ending. here is where i am puzzled with my current one. she does not like to be touched or naked outside of actual act of sex. would not let me give her oral or touch any other part but nipples ( limited way ). it is turning me off ( have hard time making love ), because i am visual, love foreplay. seems we are not sexually compatible, is there something i can do? i try to adjust to her liking but not sure, i am having doubts if t his will not be deal breaker for us. i like her so much otherwise.
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