How much does/should you let your gf/bf's ex affect your relationship?
I'm in a relatively new relationship. We both have one toddler each and while my ex is sane and my relationship with her is civil, hers is not. It concerns me. He's white trash.
Example 1
She was driving her son home one day and he had a piece of candy that he wanted to 'chuck'. When she asked what that meant, he wanted her to roll down the window so he could throw it out.
Example 2
She couldn't get him to bed until after 10pm last night. His father apparently lets him do whatever and admits to the son going to bed at 11 or 12. The kid is two years old!!!
It's only going to get worse. I'm scared because I'm protective of my son and don't want him to pick up on her son's bad habits. Not to mention, the ex causes her stress in other ways because he's a loose cannon and plays games with her. Who knows what I'll be in store for when he finds out about me.
This is a big concern for me. Is it a fair one? I mean, it's possible it could lead me to leave her because I don't do drama.
I'm in a relatively new relationship. We both have one toddler each and while my ex is sane and my relationship with her is civil, hers is not. It concerns me. He's white trash.
Example 1
She was driving her son home one day and he had a piece of candy that he wanted to 'chuck'. When she asked what that meant, he wanted her to roll down the window so he could throw it out.
Example 2
She couldn't get him to bed until after 10pm last night. His father apparently lets him do whatever and admits to the son going to bed at 11 or 12. The kid is two years old!!!
It's only going to get worse. I'm scared because I'm protective of my son and don't want him to pick up on her son's bad habits. Not to mention, the ex causes her stress in other ways because he's a loose cannon and plays games with her. Who knows what I'll be in store for when he finds out about me.
This is a big concern for me. Is it a fair one? I mean, it's possible it could lead me to leave her because I don't do drama.
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