Last night I triggered badly. My husband and I are traveling as he is on a business trip in the US and I am with him. Staying downtown in a city that is in desperate need of urban redevelopment, I figured out how to take the city bus to the shopping mall (the one with a TJ Maxx of course.....)
And at dinner, I then noticed a fair few new bites on my arm. This is, btw, a city in which my husband had worked in for about 5 years before he was transferred 10 years ago. Even then, he said he would have never have taken a city bus here. Only poor people do, and my use of the bus could be a possible source of these new bites on my arm and he was really surprised when he met me (this was in London), that I regularly took the bus.
Anyone who has followed my postings know that one of the many irksome aspects of his EA with another woman was his readiness to pay for her taxis even when he knew she was still looking and then dating other men.......... while leaving me at the bus stop and on a couple of occasions, the two of us waiting in the cold for a bus while a couple taxis go by.
Is it possible, Gentlemen, that the sheer act of being told "you must do this" with an implicit "or else" at the end of it can somehow make you both want to do it and see this woman in new, improved and above the others light to the point that you would like prioritise her?
Think back to your courting situations whether you were comparing women whom you were dating sequentially or simultaneously...... can accepting nothing less than dates in the which the man plans, pays, and either drives across town to pick up the date or he sends car service around make you want her even more?
Ladies, you can contribute your own experiences related to this matter.
And at dinner, I then noticed a fair few new bites on my arm. This is, btw, a city in which my husband had worked in for about 5 years before he was transferred 10 years ago. Even then, he said he would have never have taken a city bus here. Only poor people do, and my use of the bus could be a possible source of these new bites on my arm and he was really surprised when he met me (this was in London), that I regularly took the bus.
Anyone who has followed my postings know that one of the many irksome aspects of his EA with another woman was his readiness to pay for her taxis even when he knew she was still looking and then dating other men.......... while leaving me at the bus stop and on a couple of occasions, the two of us waiting in the cold for a bus while a couple taxis go by.
Is it possible, Gentlemen, that the sheer act of being told "you must do this" with an implicit "or else" at the end of it can somehow make you both want to do it and see this woman in new, improved and above the others light to the point that you would like prioritise her?
Think back to your courting situations whether you were comparing women whom you were dating sequentially or simultaneously...... can accepting nothing less than dates in the which the man plans, pays, and either drives across town to pick up the date or he sends car service around make you want her even more?
Ladies, you can contribute your own experiences related to this matter.
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