I'm still separated but nearing the light at the end of the tunnel as far as that is concerned.
Last time I dated before I was married was 14 years ago! Things have changed.....online dating and "multi-dating", plus our area has doubled in population. A 1st date is no longer "oh your so and so's son", it's a week of emails and text followed by most of the women appearing like they are wondering if they are going to wind up buried in my backyard after a first date:(
Also, a trend I've noticed, I'm 38, and I'm either finding single/divorced women in their mid to late 20's that oddly seem to be the most "real" so far, and a bunch of messed up women in their 30's-40's that have major baggage, unrealistic expectations, or just never grew up.
I'm a bit lost with the whole thing honestly. I'm confident and kick @ss in my work and hobbies, but this whole dating thing has me 2nd guessing myself. I see a lot of the same gals still online that were there from the beginning when I started "window shopping" over a year ago. I realize there is more to it than the "she's a healthy female of breeding age" (Terminator 3 lol), but to get shot down because your off on a couple types of music has me scratching my head.
Last time I dated before I was married was 14 years ago! Things have changed.....online dating and "multi-dating", plus our area has doubled in population. A 1st date is no longer "oh your so and so's son", it's a week of emails and text followed by most of the women appearing like they are wondering if they are going to wind up buried in my backyard after a first date:(
Also, a trend I've noticed, I'm 38, and I'm either finding single/divorced women in their mid to late 20's that oddly seem to be the most "real" so far, and a bunch of messed up women in their 30's-40's that have major baggage, unrealistic expectations, or just never grew up.
I'm a bit lost with the whole thing honestly. I'm confident and kick @ss in my work and hobbies, but this whole dating thing has me 2nd guessing myself. I see a lot of the same gals still online that were there from the beginning when I started "window shopping" over a year ago. I realize there is more to it than the "she's a healthy female of breeding age" (Terminator 3 lol), but to get shot down because your off on a couple types of music has me scratching my head.
Put the internet to work for you.
No comments:
Post a Comment