My wife and I have not had sex in over 6 weeks but I find out from our web history that yesterday she was looking up porn (yes, it was definitely her and not someone else). Should I be:
a) Relieved that she's not dead, sexually?
b) Hurt that on the rare occassion she's feeling a little horny she directs her sexual energy somewhere other than towards her long suffering, sex starved husband?
To weed out the obvious questions....I'm in good shape, I look after myself, I'm confident that my wife would say that she feels loved and appreciated, I'd be considered a good husband by any standard. Our sex life has been poor for the past ten years, my wife knows that this is an issue in our marriage but she chooses to avoid the issue rather than put any effort into fixing it. It's a classic HD-LD scenario.
For the record, I look up porn regularly as an outlet for my own sexual frustration. Is it unreasonable therefore, for me to feel hurt and betrayed?
a) Relieved that she's not dead, sexually?
b) Hurt that on the rare occassion she's feeling a little horny she directs her sexual energy somewhere other than towards her long suffering, sex starved husband?
To weed out the obvious questions....I'm in good shape, I look after myself, I'm confident that my wife would say that she feels loved and appreciated, I'd be considered a good husband by any standard. Our sex life has been poor for the past ten years, my wife knows that this is an issue in our marriage but she chooses to avoid the issue rather than put any effort into fixing it. It's a classic HD-LD scenario.
For the record, I look up porn regularly as an outlet for my own sexual frustration. Is it unreasonable therefore, for me to feel hurt and betrayed?
Put the internet to work for you.
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