I really struggle with my self image/confidence and I guess a fear of rejection. I've previously been in a 2 year relationship so I don't really know how I've managed to get to this point as I was fine before.
To use an example I currently am rather into a girl from my course. I have known her since first year, I am now in third, and I've steadily grown to like her more and more. In second year on a field trip to an Italian city I pretty much fell for her and felt we got on really well; I wasn't imagining it, we just connected great!
Upon return I found out she had a boyfriend, so naturally I was pretty bummed but just got on with things. My feelings for her still haven't really gone away and I have now recently found out that over the summer holidays they split. I feel as though this is my opportunity to make something of this but I'm just stuck on what to do.
I message her occasionally, always say hi when I see her around university and we recently both went to a party and I hung out with her pretty much all night. I don't know how she feels about me, but I know that I think shes great and being around her makes me really happy. I rarely feel this way about people at all. However I don't know where to go from here, I am so nervous about taking the 'next step' (not really the best way to put it) that I have just found myself avoiding it. I also haven't really had any time with her alone, so not felt comfortable with other people around to speak to her candidly.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated, I just feel incredibly out of practice and not sure how to progress or what would be the correct thing to say?!
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