Been browsing this site for a few months. I won't go into lengthy details as they are the same as many people on here. The basics are:
I'm HD man married to LD woman. Been through all of the emotions others have lamented about. Have considered all of the options one would consider when feeling that kind of anger, resentment, rejection, shame for 6 plus years.
SO, my question(s) for LD women. Was your husband ever able to get through to you how horrible you made him feel? If so, how was he able to create this epiphany and were you able to work things out? If not, where are you now?
I realize everyone's situation has variables and the husband plays a significant role in this. But if you were telling your male friend whom you believe has tried to make all the changes requested of an LD wife (be more affectionate outside of sex, be more present, be interested in my concerns/life/needs, etc..) what advise would you give for a final hail mary before throwing in the towel?
I'm HD man married to LD woman. Been through all of the emotions others have lamented about. Have considered all of the options one would consider when feeling that kind of anger, resentment, rejection, shame for 6 plus years.
SO, my question(s) for LD women. Was your husband ever able to get through to you how horrible you made him feel? If so, how was he able to create this epiphany and were you able to work things out? If not, where are you now?
I realize everyone's situation has variables and the husband plays a significant role in this. But if you were telling your male friend whom you believe has tried to make all the changes requested of an LD wife (be more affectionate outside of sex, be more present, be interested in my concerns/life/needs, etc..) what advise would you give for a final hail mary before throwing in the towel?
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