Not general question, based on recent events.
Too cut a very long story short...
Ex broke up during first year uni, was dating for 4 months, broke up because he said he could never 'love' me. I was gutted. Now he is my best friend (no, really, he is...), but he recently made a move on me again, but doesn't wan't a relationship as does not see a future. I said I would not settle for anything less (we went down fwb route before, felt like I was settling even though I deserved better from him). I really now see him as a friend and am actually interested in someone else now. Sadly I now feel like I can't trust him, as he will always be attracted to me and want more from the friendship. Also, it took me months to get to the point I am at, but a feel like one mistake can chuck me back to how awful I felt when he dumped me. I don't want to fall for him again.
My question: Shall I cut my losses to prevent me being hurt, and reduce contact? Or shall I try to be friends with him again? What will be better in the long term for not getting hurt? Can I trust him? :(
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