I NEED HELP- GUYS ARE VERY CONFUSING !!!
ok basically at my sixth form there are italian exange students, which are staying for a whole year :) yay ! anyways one of the italian guys and i have something going on, i am VERY CONFUSED !!! when they first got to my college i didn't find him attractive (he is hot and he proabably knows it) cus i was liking someone else, so i didnt pay attention to him, we spoke a bit and realised he spoke spanish like me (we speak spanish to each other all the time). i noticed he kept looking my way and smiling and i kinda felt attracted to him more and more. Also when he say me round he would hi-five me or stuff like that. we stayed after school one day (am learning italian from him) to help me. it was awkard at first but he helped me and we ened up having fun and speaking in spanish. before he left he hi-fived me again but this time he held my hand and gave me a "i like you smile", during the whole week we were like that- he would carry on looking my way and holding my hand whilst hi-f iving me and tapping me in the head with his journal and stuff like that.
we went to a party togther and we danced and had fun and made out ! (yay) the kiss was like dessperate and full of need. he had drunk abit but he wasnt very drunk. the rest of the night i took care of the other drunk girls and before he left we pecked. the next time i saw him at school he smiled at me again and i asked him if he remebered what happened- if he remebered that he kissed me. he said yes, i saked him why ? he said he likes me and i said i like you to. i asked him now what. he replied "we have to see :)". since then everything is so confussing !!!!!!! one minute he is smiling and hi-fiving me (holding my hand) the next he is avoiding me - which causes me to ignore him and we end up ignoring each other.
the girls (italians) said he is a player, he always makes out with girls and never settles and stuff like that (2 of them got hurt by him so they don't want me to get hurt aswell) but he never told them he liked them.
one of the other girls he gets the bus with him, talk and she said he actually want a serious relationship now and that he likes me (this was what she said at the party) i asked her recently for some advice and if she knew anything. he told her that he is confussed ! he doesn't know what to do or what he wants (he likes another girl- who gets around a lot at school-as well but a bit less than me according his friends).
one day we said bye and hugged and kissed my cheeck, the next day my neck and the day after that he just gave me a quick hug and since then is just a quick hug, his face facing the other way and no more hi-fives, so we kinda end up ignoring each other, occasionally give each other that smile (i like you). yesterday him and his friends couldn't be asked to go to the dinner that we planned for all the italians. i was annoyed cus he couldn't come and cus the other ditched aswell. i asked him to come and he was like i can't get home though and there will be many more occasions that we can hang out. so i was like well come and go early then (i was trying hard to convince him, i even said that if i won a game of basketball he would have to come, if i lost he would stay- he kept saying no i wanna train and i was like ok ok) then he grabbed my face with both of his hands and squeezed my cheeks and ended up messing aorund with our hnads again. he gave me his phone number without askin g aswell and messaged me asking me for my snapchat (which i gave) but now I DON'T KNOW WHAT THE F**** is going on, cus if he doenst want anything serious then he should just jog on, but i don't want to drive him away by saying " do you wanna be with me ? if not stop flirting with me"
please help me asap and driving my friends crazy with this and is driving me crazy. i need advice thats not baised. please don't be harsh but be honest and helpful.
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