This is really a last resort posting this but I am so confused and I keep getting conflicting advice from my friends.
Basically, the back story is: Went to uni a few years ago but dropped out after first year as I was too immature and spent the entire time getting drunk instead of going to lectures. However, I have matured a lot since then and have a career plan now and decided to apply for uni again. I got my unconditional offer before Christmas and was very excited to be going back to uni.
Cut a long story short, ended up getting a boyfriend, fell in love and decided to forget about uni and move in together. He is honestly perfect and I'm sure we would be together for a long long time. But now it's nearer the time to when I should be starting uni in September, I can't help but think should I be going!? Should I be putting my career/education before a boy?
Where he lives where I would be moving to seems to have a high unemployment rate and not a lot of jobs available so I am worried about having no money or job too.
Bear in mind that I have had a few long term boyfriends before so I know how I feel about this one is different but also that relationships don't always work out so maybe I should not be focussing my life on a guy at such a young(ish) age. I seem to have a habit in the past of putting boys before everything else and then regretting it when it doesn't work out.
Also the uni I would be attending would be across the country so I doubt the relationship would be able to continue if I went there.
Sorry to sound soppy, but I really really love him but I am just so confused about all of this, feel like he is the right man just the wrong time!
Really its a tough decision of going to uni or moving in with my boyfriend, finding a job and making a life together.
Thanks to anyone who has managed to read through my essay! Any thoughts would be appreciated
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