Should I tell her?

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Should I tell her?

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Ok guys, here's the deal I met my present girlfriend at university last October and we were just seeing each other for around 2 months. During which time both of us got with and slept with other people, as much as I know of I slept with a lot more people than her ( me: about idk 8 girls if not more and she apparently only slept with one but got with one more)... but anyway that was all fine because we were just seeing each other at the time and she knows about that anyway.

Then came around mid december when we were breaking up for christmas and we decided to get into a relationship and make it official blah blah blah.

Here's the problem, because it was uni and like my social life literally blew up from coming from such a small place to such a big city and getting with so many girls and just loving it so much like I hadn't really had enough and like I think I kind of rushed into a relationship too much and like for the first month I still carried on with my ways and I slept with like another 4 girls.

However, after a while I started spending more time with her and got to really know her and got to really really like her and I haven't even flirted or anything with any other girl since about the end of january which was the end of our first month together.

Now, thing is all this happened back then in january and we've been together for like 8 months and we both really really love each other and nothing of the sort has ever happened since january and I really don't know what to do.

Part of me wants me to be honest and tell her because I keep thinking like what if something was to happen to her and she'd never know or if she was to hear it from someone else and I really don't like keeping secrets like this, I want everything to be open in our relationship. Then another part of me thinks that I should just keep it hidden because for one I'd say that theres a 99% chance that she'd never find out and like it was all so long ago and meaningless I'd really hate if this was to break her heart and nothing would ever be the same again.

What do you think I should do? and if you think I should come clean what do you think I should say?

And before I get loads of hate which I can understand I deserve I can't tell you how much to this day I regret doing what I did.

Thanks.

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