Been married 25 years, sex life is active and fine. Discovered wife watching online porn by accident on her iPad. Not a big deal except she has insisted for years she doesn't like porn, she finds it degrading to women, she doesn't want me viewing anything. Again, not a big deal for me.
Here's the kicker though, the pron she watches is all about anal sex, double penetration, and stuff but she hates anal sex and anything to do with sex out of the ordinary. I asked her once, nicely, she completely denied it (no one else has access to her iPad). I told her I don't care (in fact I'm hoping she'd open her mind a bit) but she was defensive and belligerent towards me just for mentioning. I suggested we watch together and became very upset. At this point, I'm just trying to understand what is really going on in her head since she won't even entertain talking about it, why would a woman view something that she finds "disgusting" (her words) yet she hides it from me after all these years?
Here's the kicker though, the pron she watches is all about anal sex, double penetration, and stuff but she hates anal sex and anything to do with sex out of the ordinary. I asked her once, nicely, she completely denied it (no one else has access to her iPad). I told her I don't care (in fact I'm hoping she'd open her mind a bit) but she was defensive and belligerent towards me just for mentioning. I suggested we watch together and became very upset. At this point, I'm just trying to understand what is really going on in her head since she won't even entertain talking about it, why would a woman view something that she finds "disgusting" (her words) yet she hides it from me after all these years?
Put the internet to work for you.
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