Basically I've been crushing hard on this guy in my class since the beginning of the year, and when my friend who's good friends with him asked what he thought about me he said that I am really pretty, have a good sense of humour but am too shy and that I need to stop being so shy all the time. The last part of what he said really got to me because my shyness has been a huge insecurity of mine for as long as I can remember, I've always hated the fact that I can't be as open as other people and that it takes me a while to feel comfortable enough to be myself around different people. Only recently have I accepted that I am who I am and it's ok for me to be reserved but when he said that about me it really hurt and makes it seem like I shouldn't be happy with who I am and that being shy is a very negative trait. He's a very chatty extroverted person and it just made me think why is it seen as such a bad personality trait by some people? It's something that p eople think is good to break out of and is something you should work towards to get rid off. What are your opinions?
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