I know there were some previous threads on this topic, but hoping to get some fresh insight. My wife of 15 years has always been realitivly low sexual desire (not absent of desire, but pretty low need). We have some type of sex at least weekly, but it is more about a quick orgasm (for both of us) to feel good than it is about an "expereince". It is normally pretty dull and mostly just mechanical.
I often look forward to the 2 or 3 times a year my wife is really sexually expresive ("horny" for lack of a better word), but I find that often those far adn few between times that happen for her are a "must have it immediatly" kind of thing and she often just masturbates. I get really jealous of this, not becuase I have an issue with masturbation, but more becuase her sagnificant sexual expression is so rare, when she runs off an takes care of her needs by herself, it then can be months before that level of need happens again. I also find that becuase she is so worked up in these situations, she normally has a mind blowing orgasm and a great expereince. For sex between the 2 of us, it is normally just so-so
I often look forward to the 2 or 3 times a year my wife is really sexually expresive ("horny" for lack of a better word), but I find that often those far adn few between times that happen for her are a "must have it immediatly" kind of thing and she often just masturbates. I get really jealous of this, not becuase I have an issue with masturbation, but more becuase her sagnificant sexual expression is so rare, when she runs off an takes care of her needs by herself, it then can be months before that level of need happens again. I also find that becuase she is so worked up in these situations, she normally has a mind blowing orgasm and a great expereince. For sex between the 2 of us, it is normally just so-so
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