I have already posted a thread here but I am specifically asking now for positive input. My wife and I are in a reconciliation phase, it is genuine but tough, after years of her feeling unloved and no romance she has decided she is going to stay and see if we can get this back. Both of us are doing IC and start MC next week and are committed to renewing our marriage (me with a little more conviction than her, as expected). I am going into this with my eyes open and have a pretty good grasp of where she is at, I think I surprised her last night by describing her state of mind/emotion pretty accurately without being told by her and she opened up to me a little more than she has recently.
Anyway, please if you are the person who had a PA or EA and have reconciled please put in here how you started build your love for your spouse again. If you have been the one who's spouse said "I love you but..." and have reconciled or currently reconciling please I would love any accounts of how you got your spouse to believe in you again. Anything else, telling me to make her prove herself or whatever, I'm not interested. I am looking to the future and believing we can have one or I may as well not bother. Thanks.
Anyway, please if you are the person who had a PA or EA and have reconciled please put in here how you started build your love for your spouse again. If you have been the one who's spouse said "I love you but..." and have reconciled or currently reconciling please I would love any accounts of how you got your spouse to believe in you again. Anything else, telling me to make her prove herself or whatever, I'm not interested. I am looking to the future and believing we can have one or I may as well not bother. Thanks.
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