How to separate when one partner has nowhere to go

Ok so things aren't great and I need some opinions. H is from the US, so he has NO ONR here in Canada but my family. We own a house with my sister so for me to leave it would be awkward for her (she lives in the basement Aprtment) I feel like I need some time from my H. He treats me like his Dad has always treated him. Tonight he came up at around 8pm and started yelling at me about not having my hair done. I took a shower am hour earlier and was just laying on my bed on YouTube. I lost track of time as we were supposed to be going out to the movies tonight. So he comes up and tells me to get my head out of my ass. I lose my ****. I told him he doesn't need to talk to me like I am a piece of **** and needs to apologize. We keep arguing and he goes on to say he sees how my sister and I didn't have men before (my sister is single) because no one can get along with us. Now I am very easy to get along with, H is the only person who pushes my buttons and makes me so mad. I tell him to go to the movies by himself, put a shirt on and out the door I go. I am not sitting in my car at the beach (yes it's dark and cold as hell in Canada) but I don't know what else to do. I hate hate hate being talked to like crap. H says my Daddy let us so whatever we want and that's why I have such an issue with things. This comes from the guy who was talked to like **** thru his teenage years from his Dad. Whom his family believes was abusive to him and his brother. So I come downstairs, punch the wall, slam a few doors and once again, here I am in my car. He has called my cell at least 20 times. The ignore button it is. All I wanted was for H to say sorry for saying what he said to me. He also said I am the reason he acts the way he does and he yells. Bull****! Your father is the reason you yell because he does! What should I do now?

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