It took my wife nearly 14 years of marriage to get it.
She admitted to me today, the main reason she has a low sex drive and doesn't want sex, is because of her size, making her insecure and not feel sexy. So all the e book reading and doing the MAPP, 180, etc. I've done didn't do much because she is insecure due to her size!!!
So for the last 2 months, she has lost 10 lbs already. I even am noticing how her large clothes are starting to fall down and are fitting loosely.....
I've told her, she looks hot and wow, what a difference. My wife then tells me, she is just starting with the weight loss and this gets even better.....come New Years, January, she is going back to the gym!!!!
I am so happy, I'm really beyond words right now. I said, we should do the love language quiz and she actually agreed, so in a short while, we will do the quiz and compare our love languages.
The trick for her to lose 10 lbs in 2 months, was finding out how many calories she needs to lose, maintain and gain weight. Now that she knows, she eats around 1400 calories a day, spread out and she looses 1 - 2 lbs per week. She isn't starving hungry and she loves the results she's getting. She has a slower metabolism.
If I imagine one year from now, she could be 50 - 60 lbs lighter. I would have a heart attack.:D:D:D I am already telling her she is my sexy mama.
Things are definitely looking up, finally.:smthumbup::smthumbup:
Will keep everyone updated.
She admitted to me today, the main reason she has a low sex drive and doesn't want sex, is because of her size, making her insecure and not feel sexy. So all the e book reading and doing the MAPP, 180, etc. I've done didn't do much because she is insecure due to her size!!!
So for the last 2 months, she has lost 10 lbs already. I even am noticing how her large clothes are starting to fall down and are fitting loosely.....
I've told her, she looks hot and wow, what a difference. My wife then tells me, she is just starting with the weight loss and this gets even better.....come New Years, January, she is going back to the gym!!!!
I am so happy, I'm really beyond words right now. I said, we should do the love language quiz and she actually agreed, so in a short while, we will do the quiz and compare our love languages.
The trick for her to lose 10 lbs in 2 months, was finding out how many calories she needs to lose, maintain and gain weight. Now that she knows, she eats around 1400 calories a day, spread out and she looses 1 - 2 lbs per week. She isn't starving hungry and she loves the results she's getting. She has a slower metabolism.
If I imagine one year from now, she could be 50 - 60 lbs lighter. I would have a heart attack.:D:D:D I am already telling her she is my sexy mama.
Things are definitely looking up, finally.:smthumbup::smthumbup:
Will keep everyone updated.
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