Married for 2 years and already passionless

I would appreciate any ideas to spice up a 2 year marriage that has gone pretty dull lately. We've known each other for over 5 years, have been married for 2. We were mutually attracted to each other when first meeting. We had a very active sex life. Since being married, and especially after having a baby, the passion is pretty much gone. We hardly ever have sex. Don't even kiss or hug most of the time. Forget romance. I miss him telling me how he feels and that he is attracted to me. I am back to my pre pregnancy weight, so it can't be my body. He likes really long hair, which I had, but I cut off ten inches to donate to Locks of Love right after the baby was born. Could something random like that be the reason? I understand this happens a lot after a baby is born, but here I am putting myself out there for some love and affection and nothing is happening. I am the one who gets up with the baby - he sleeps in another room so he is getting a full night's sleep - I don't think it could be a "I'm too tired," thing. I initiate almost everything. I just don't understand how two people can go from having a great physical relationship for 3 years to pretty much nothing. I really miss the closeness between us. I've told him a couple times but he doesn't think it's a big deal. I'm pretty bummed out about it. If this is only 2 years in, I'm in trouble. I love feeling "in love." We conduct ourselves like two 80 year olds eating dinner at 5 o'clock, then watching tv, retiring around 8 pm every night, when the baby goes to sleep. I'd love some ideas to spice up the marriage or feedback as to what you think might be going on with my husband. I miss cuddling and the touchy feely stuff very much. Like I said, I initiate most of the time. It would be great if HE did every once in a while so I knew he still regarded me as he did three years ago. Thank you!

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