The In-Laws

I could use some help. Majorly. So, my brother in law and mother in law were living with my husband and I. For some reasons I don't really think need mentioning. Anyway, I was letting my Mother in law live with us. Then she decides its perfectly okay to let her other son move in with us. She didn't even ask me if it was okay. She just said he was. (Problem one) Then she was being a total jerk when I had a problem with it and voiced my issues with what she did. (Problem two) She makes my house a total mess and makes it out to be my fault. As if this wasn't bad enough she makes us pay her $400/mo for all sorts of things that we don't even use or ask her for. Even though she hit two huge axis deer in our car and never paid for damages. (Problem three) She has my husband so obedient that it makes me sick. I don't even think they cut the umbilical cord. He does everything she says. Which yeah that's great and all but seriously? I'm his WIFE. He should here me out occasionally and care what I have to say. She encourages him to ignore what I say. Then when I have an issue she says "Of course, he listens to me I'm his Mother." In a snooty attitude. (Problem four) She and my Brother in law treat me like crap. They act like its this huge deal to speak with me. I try to talk to them all the time and they act like I'm scum. It hurts me so much and it just sucks. I don't understand any of this. I can't handle this anymore. I'm even considering divorcing my husband to get away from them. I'm so miserable. I feel like an outcast in my own home. It sucks because she does whatever she wants whenever she wants with my things. And I hate how I have to put up with it for my daughter and husband. I don't have any desire to be a part of this family any longer. I spend most of my days either crying or hiding in my room, the only place I can feel comfortable in. They make me so miserable. Please someone help me..

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