| I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. He's sweet, caring, knows everything about me and vice versa, and I do enjoy spending time with him. However, there's a big problem: he's crazy in love with me and I've never been overly sure about my feelings. He told me he loved me within 3 weeks of knowing me. Since then I've felt this terrific pressure of feeling the same way, otherwise I constantly debate with myself if it's worth it. I feel like I should be head over heels in love with him too, even though I'm not. I like him very much and want a relationship with him, but he's TOO serious, even where he wants us to get married, commit, etc. This is really getting me down and I don't know what to do. It's bothering me lately because I feel like I've been stringing him along all this time, even though i do like him and care about him terrifically and would miss him terribly if we did split up for good. I feel down the majority of the time and my head hurts constantly as I keep wondering what's the right thing to do. What makes it a hundred times worse is that we are students and we are living together as a couple next year. We signed the contract and I knew it'd be okay, but now these thoughts have been cropping up for quite a while, I wonder if it was a bad move. And it's far too late to back out now :( His family are being quite horrible to me and they're telling me to leave as I'm just being dishonest and stringing him on. The thing is, I have been honest with him and discussed it all with him, and he either tries to change the subject or gets incredibly sulky and low about it. I really don't know what to do :( I won't get anyone who will care about me to the extent he does again, it's like he is my soulmate but I don't feel the 'butterflies in stomach, overwhelming feeling of being in love and never have. Is it worth it if I've never felt that for him, even though he is a good guy and they are quite hard to come by? Thanks for any advice. | |||
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