| Hi all, First post here, long time lurker. I usually browse this forum when I just can't take it anymore, and at least I know there are others out there that are going through the same thing. I'm 33, so is my wife, we have 3 kids, and are generally quite happy. We rarely disagree, never fight,etc. However, she is LD, and sex is just not that important to her. She's actually told me that she wouldn't mind if she didn't have sex for years. Our sex life now is I would say on average once every 2-3 weeks. Sometimes we'll go a month without it, sometimes twice in the same day, and then drought, basically it's just all over the place. We have talked about it, and she knows it's an issue. Although I don't want to talk about it anymore because what's the point. We've been together for 10 years. I'm not naive enough to say that it's only her fault, but I don't know what to change about my behaviour. Sometimes we have that conversation where she just 'gets it' and it looks like we're on the right track, and then she just shuts down a few days later. She's been away for the weekends for the last 3 weeks while I do some home reno stuff. I didn't chase her around when she was home during the week, but last night after 2 weeks of no sex, I tried to kiss her while we were in bed. She just gave me this look that said 'what are you doing?' And squirmed away. FML In any case, is sex important enough to challenge a family? I love my wife, I love my kids, is it worth putting them in jeopardy over sex? | |||
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