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Hi,

Relationship is going well, some minor problems here and there, but we are trying to solve everything. We're together for 3 months now, i feel very close to this girl. But one thing is troubling me. In her apartment she still has photo of her and her ex. We have talked a bit about her feelings for her ex, she told it's over with him, she doesn't feel nothing for him, but does not regret nothing and accepts it as part of her life. Photo is just a reminder of that. But it confuses me every time i visit her apartment. It's not envy, i feel more like i'm "the third", i think that she cares more of him than me. These thoughts are totally not rational, she doesn't meet with him and very rarely chats with him on FB about some casual stuff like studies. I think that this photo means much more for me than for her.

Why is she still has this photo if she knows that i can see it and may feel upset? What does it tell about her, me and about our relationship? Should i be this worried? Does woman really can do it? I know i couldn't keep photos of my ex in the place where i could see it every day, especially if i had a partner.

Why can't i ask her myself? I feel like i'm overreacting, looking for problems that doesn't exist. I also don't want to put pressure, if it really doesn't mean nothing for her. And yes, maybe i'm afraid that this photo may hide some of her warm feeling for him that she tries to hide from herself and i'm really "the third".




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