Children and Custody

So stbx and I have gone down a long road of nowhere and have nothing in writing re: custody as we don't agree to anything the other has to say. So for now, he sees our son on the weekends. Never before noon. Because he sleeps in, so I do the morning and bed routines, every single day. Anyway, he shows up, has a fit when I'm still there or say ANYTHING, then leaves with our toddler alone and doesn't tell me where. So for about 10 hours on Sat and same on Sun, I have no idea where my son is. If I ask for pictures, he doesn't send them. If I text saying I will call now so I can talk to my son he tells me I didn't have time to miss him and I'm harassing him and need to stop. Etc. Is that legal? And when your children are with your ex, do you know where they are and what they're up to? What's normal here? my son is 2.5.

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