Some Advice

Hey guys, Need some advice. Me and my gf were in a long distance relationship for about 8 months and then she moved to NYC from the south to be with me. She is having a hard time acclamating to the city life, it's been 4 months and she still complains about public transportation all the time and it stresses her out, etc; Our problem is she needs "words". Almost whenever anything goes wrong, she misses the bus, someone upsets her, something upsets her...she gets upset almost daily, at minimum every other day with something, and she relies on me to make her feel better with words. She needs words of encouragement "you can do it", "you're not alone", etc; This is just something I'm having a very hard time with. I feel, like no crap she's not alone, we're together and I've changed my entire lifestyle as well to be with her, for me to have to tell her she's not alone is a bit silly and somewhat offending to me..why would I have to tell her that? I'm there for her physically, spiritually, but I really just can't do this words of encouragement thing so often. If she were upset every now and then, it would be ok, but for me to feel like a motivational speaker daily, just isn't me. I'm starting to rant, so any advice would be much appreciated :)

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