| Yeah, I too now join the ranks of the guy with the cheating wife. The looser. That's how I feel now. So, for the last 4 months I've noticed that my wife- I guess I should give some info first. Sorry if this is a little obtuse and crazy, but I just found out like an 2 hours ago. My wife is 31 years old, we have been married for 6 years and have 1 child- an amazing boy, who's just a beast and Boss Hog, lol. He's 4 years old, gonna be 5 in May. I'm 34. Back to the point. She's been cheating on me for the last 4 months- for what I think has been physical for 3 or 4 weeks-more on that later. Back in Early December she began getting on Facebook. A lot. More than often. And started chatting up a co-worker ( She works in a real estate office). Now this F*ckin d-bag is a married guy as well, he's a tad bit older than me- I think late 30's early 40's, not sure and I'm sure he has at least 1 or 2 kids. I know he has kids. What a d!ck. So I guess in February I noticed that she was becoming sort of withdrawn and short with me. Detaching I guess. Our sex life was still great- at least 5 times a week, sometimes more. So I just sort of chalked it up as just being married and wife stuff. Then about 3 weeks ago our sex life, trickled off- big time. We've had sex 3 times since about the end of Feb. This is when I went into full recon mode. I know my wife- very well, I've known her since we were 9, child hood friends who lost touch when we went off to college then reconnected. So I know the lying ***** well. I was told by a friend who caught his ex wife- that the phone and facebook is the key to catching intel on the lying *****s. So that's what I did, Well because I'm not a n00b at IT I got her facebook info easily.Nothing was out of line, other then way to much convo's and likes by each of them- but nothing out of line. So then the quest for the phone began. She's clever, she tried using apps that delete all messages by selected numbers. But because these apps require a computer to start them the first time- her hard drive wasn't sweeped yet. So 2nite while she slept I got into her computer. and was able to run a system restore of her phone- back to the beginning of December. What I found was shocking. 1'000s of texts to this d-bag and then I got to feb's text's- this is when I think it got physical. Then the pictures. I'll never forget these. Ever. In my life. These pictures of her f*cking and S*cking this guy's little pecker will forever be in my brain. That was tonight. I'm surprisingly calm. I guess I'm just waiting. I want to divorce her, I hate her now. But my little boy is the x factor. I want him to have his mother. But If we divorce I will fight for custody with every fiber of my being. It will be intense. Scorched Earth policy. I will ruin her life. If She try's and takes my son. It's game on. And it's a game that she will lose. Badly. So that's my early, early sunday morning in beautiful so cal. How's yours. Advice needed. Please. | |||
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